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This is an example of the
RELATIONSHIP COMPATIBILITY
astrology chart that is available from this web site. It contains
information on the compatibility of 2 people in a relationship, in the
following sections :
Compatibility chart for
PHOEBE & DAN
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Radix 1 MC 24 55 Leo Sun 0 14 Leo 9
------- ASC 8 51 Sco Moon 22 16 Ari 6
Phoebe ---- Plac --- Mercury 23 14 Cnc 9
11. 27 27 Vir Venus 12 7 Vir 10
Date: 23 Jul 1962 Mon 12. 21 9 Lib Mars 10 4 Gem 8
Time: 13 50 00 2. 7 9 Sgr Jupiter 11 58 Psc R 4
Zone: 0 00 E 3. 14 17 Cap Saturn 8 40 Aqr R 3
Latitude: 53 58 N -------------------- Uranus 28 58 Leo 10
Longitude: 1 07 W Node 9 14 Leo R 9 Neptune 10 43 Sco 1
YORK Point 0 52 Leo 9 Pluto 8 32 Vir 10
Chiron 10 11 Psc R 4
Radix 2 MC 19 49 Sgr Sun 21 27 Sco 1
------- ASC 2 15 Psc Moon 12 24 Tau 7
Dan ---- Plac --- Mercury 9 52 Sgr R 2
11. 6 33 Cap Venus 4 52 Lib 11
Date: 14 Nov 1959 Sat 12. 26 18 Cap Mars 16 34 Sco 1
Time: 13 50 00 2. 2 34 Tau Jupiter 8 9 Sgr 2
Zone: 0 00 E 3. 1 4 Gem Saturn 4 11 Cap 2
Latitude: 53 23 N --------------------- Uranus 21 0 Leo 9
Longitude: 1 29 W Node 1 14 Lib R 11 Neptune 7 15 Sco 12
SHEFFIELD Point 23 11 Leo 9 Pluto 6 1 Vir 10
Chiron 22 45 Aqr 3
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S Y C H O M E T E R
Dan's Psychometer
POWERS 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100
_________________+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+
Partnership XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Mental XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Emotional XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Practical XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Theatrical XXXXXXXXXXXX
Artistic XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Physical XXXXXXXXXXX
Sensuous XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX>
Authoritarian XXX
Romantic XXXXXXXXX
_________________+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+
Phoebe's Psychometer
POWERS 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100
_________________+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+
Partnership
Mental
Emotional XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Practical XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Theatrical XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Artistic XXXXXX
Physical X
Sensuous XXXXXX
Authoritarian XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Romantic XXXX
_________________+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+
Psychometer:
Phoebe Score: Partnership - 0%
PARTNERSHIP - definition "Being
.... either member of a couple, in a relationship." ....Collins
dictionary
Phoebe, you obviously have a well
developed sense of independence and may even fall into the category
of 'loner'. This in no way implies that relationships mean little to
you, simply that you are not in the least dependent upon them, in other
words, unlike some people I know, you won't get involved in a relationship
for the sake of it, just so as not to be on your own. In fact you are
more than capable of taking care of yourself and will not be crushed
if forced by chance to spend time on your own.
Psychometer:
Phoebe Score: Mental - 0%
MENTAL - definition "Of or involving
the mind, occurring only in the mind." ....Collins dictionary
Perhaps the key words applicable
to you Phoebe, are concentration, or logic, or even forethought. You
don't suffer from the kind of mind that is always running away with
itself in an orgiastic banquet of ceaseless ideas and marginal mental
ramblings. The cerebrum is not awash with endless chatter as though
it was king costermonger of the little grey cells. The workings of your
mind are essentially 'measured'.
Psychometer:
Phoebe Score: Emotional - 84%
EMOTIONAL - definition "Expressive
of any strong feeling, as of joy, sorrow or fear." ....Collins
dictionary
Turning now to your emotional nature
Phoebe, you can see how it compares with your more practical side. No
matter what your 'Mental' rating Phoebe, the Psychometer clearly shows
that reason will always be highly coloured by your emotional state.
In this regard, you live your life in terms of highs and lows - I wouldn't
be surprised to find that you see your life and loves as though they
were simply excerpts from 'Wuthering Heights'and you are Cathy or Heathcliffe.
No doubt, these strong feelings of yours could, at times, cloud your
judgement, as everything is seen as larger than life and reality is
often considerably less interesting and exciting than these grand passions
you imagine.
Psychometer:
Phoebe Score: Practical - 60%
PRACTICAL - definition "Involving
or concerned with experience or actual use, rather than theory."
....Collins dictionary
As well as the above Phoebe; nuts,
bolts and screwdrivers are not the most important things in your life,
but neither do they hold any great fears for you. You can deal with
practicalities as and how may be necessary without taking enormous interest.
I suppose it would be true to say that as far as this area of your life
is concerned you're a pretty balanced sort of person. Not too much down
to earth, not too much head in the clouds, just a thoroughly healthy
average.
Psychometer:
Phoebe Score: Theatrical - 54%
THEATRICAL - definition "Of
or relating to the theatre, or dramatic performances. Exaggerated, and
affected in manner or behaviour; histrionic." ....Collins dictionary
A category such as 'Theatrical' may
seem to have little relevance to your life but, nonetheless, many of
us are certainly exaggerated and stylised in our behaviour. And, with
regard to 'Artistic', we may not all be super-stars, but we all have
talents and gifts of varying kinds.
No one could accuse you Phoebe of
being overly affected in your mannerisms, but neither are you completely
oblivious to style and effect. Basically, you have a reasonable degree
of equilibrium in this area of your life. You don't go completely over
the top, showing off like some latter day Laurence Olivier hamming it
up like crazy. Equally, you don't totally hide your light under a bushel
either. Vive la Balance!
Psychometer:
Phoebe Score: Artistic - 12%
ARTISTIC - definition "The display
of qualities required in art, such as sensibility and imagination."
....Collins dictionary
Equally Phoebe, a hermit's life might
not bother you too much as you aren't dependent on cultural input to
sustain you. Now I don't mean to suggest that you are some kind of cultural
vandal, a sort of artistic Luddite, and I'm sure that there is plenty
going on in your life to more than compensate for a slight lack here
, but I'm pretty sure your time is not spent discussing existentialist
theories to the strains of a Mozart concerto.
Psychometer:
Phoebe Score: Physical - 2%
PHYSICAL - definition "Relating
to the body, as distinguished from the mind or spirit. Relating to material
things, or nature." ....Collins dictionary
Quite apparently Phoebe, you don't
place too much emphasis on the physical side of your life, and as your
Psychometer graph shows, this is compensated for in other areas. Perhaps
you just like lying around doing as little as possible, or perhaps your
thoughts are so lofty that you don't have the time to descend to the
base life the rest of us lead. Whatever your particular desires, they
are not essentially physical.
Psychometer:
Phoebe Score: Sensual - 12%
SENSUAL - definition "Of the
body and senses, rather than the mind or soul; preoccupied with gratification
of the senses; arousing the physical appetites, especially the sexual
appetite." ........Collins dictionary
Indulging in sensual pleasures does
not have a great priority in your life. It,s not that you are some kind
of ascetic, wearing hair shirts to show your virtuosity, simply that
your interests and appetites lie elsewhere. Lounging around in bed sipping
liqueurs and licking cream off your loved one's toes is not quite your
thing.
Psychometer:
Phoebe Score: Authoritarian - 100%
AUTHORITARIAN - definition "The
power or right, to control, judge, or prohibit the actions of others."
....Collins dictionary
At this stage, Phoebe, it would be
interesting to have a look at how you see your role in society.
Your need Phoebe, to have a high
profile and to be in a position to exercise power and judgement is really
quite high. You are definitely not the type to hang around in the backroom
waiting for someone's approval, you're just going to get out there and
tell everyone what to do, especially your partner.
Perhaps you should be a little careful
that you don't let your ambitions, and need for control, impinge on
your relationships to the point where they become dangerous.
Psychometer:
Phoebe Score: Romantic - 8%
ROMANTIC - definition "Evoking
or given to thoughts and feelings of love, especially idealised or sentimental
love. Idealised for it's purity or beauty." ....Collins dictionary
Quite obviously your life Phoebe,
is not dominated by the ideal of pure and romantic love. You have a
somewhat low-key attitude to this area of your life. To put it fairly
simply, you are not overly concerned with your partners looks in terms
of modern day convention, or for all the generally accepted notions
of romance. You have your own set of values and will follow them no
matter what the contemporary consensus might be. Vive la difference
is all I can say to that!
Now, we'll look at Dan's Psychometer.
Psychometer:
Dan Score: Partnership - 40%
PARTNERSHIP - definition "Being
.... either member of a couple, in a relationship." ....Collins
dictionary
It would probably be fair to say,
Dan, that you have a well-balanced approach to relationships, being
neither too detached, nor too demanding. You like to be involved with
someone but also have enough self-reliance to not be completely phased
at the prospect of spending time on your own. This area of your life
is in fact rather well integrated and gives you a healthy attitude to
your partner.
Psychometer: Dan
Score: Mental - 32%
MENTAL - definition "Of or involving
the mind, occurring only in the mind." ....Collins dictionary
Perhaps the key words applicable
to you Dan, are concentration, or logic, or even forethought. You don't
suffer from the kind of mind that is always running away with itself
in an orgiastic banquet of ceaseless ideas and marginal mental ramblings.
The cerebrum is not awash with endless chatter as though it was king
costermonger of the little grey cells. The workings of your mind are
essentially 'measured'.
Psychometer: Dan
Score: Emotional - 76%
EMOTIONAL - definition "Expressive
of any strong feeling, as of joy, sorrow or fear." ....Collins
dictionary
Turning now to your emotional nature
Dan, you can see how it compares with your more practical side.
No matter what your 'Mental' rating
Dan, the Psychometer clearly shows that reason will always be highly
coloured by your emotional state. In this regard, you live your life
in terms of highs and lows - I wouldn't be surprised to find that you
see your life and loves as though they were simply excerpts from 'Wuthering
Heights' and you are Cathy or Heathcliffe. No doubt, these strong feelings
of yours could, at times, cloud your judgement, as everything is seen
as larger than life and reality is often considerably less interesting
and exciting than these grand passions you imagine.
Psychometer: Dan
Score: Practical - 46%
PRACTICAL - definition "Involving
or concerned with experience or actual use, rather than theory."
....Collins dictionary
As well as the above Dan; nuts, bolts
and screwdrivers are not the most important things in your life, but
neither do they hold any great fears for you. You can deal with practicalities
as and how may be necessary without taking enormous interest. I suppose
it would be true to say that as far as this area of your life is concerned
you're a pretty balanced sort of person. Not too much down to earth,
not too much head in the clouds, just a thoroughly healthy average.
Psychometer: Dan
Score: Theatrical - 24%
THEATRICAL - definition "Of
or relating to the theatre, or dramatic performances. Exaggerated, and
affected in manner or behaviour; histrionic." ....Collins dictionary
A category such as 'Theatrical' may
seem to have little relevance to your life but, nonetheless, many of
us are certainly exaggerated and stylised in our behaviour. And, with
regard to 'Artistic', we may not all be super-stars, but we all have
talents and gifts of varying kinds.
More than likely Dan, you are a fairly
down to earth type, who's not overly-interested in creating an effect
for the sake of it. In other words, you probably prefer a large degree
of anonymity. You're not the kind of person who needs to be centre stage
all the time, in fact this might well give you the 'heeby-jeebies' and
cause to run into some corner somewhere. Seriously though I'm sure you
know what I mean.
Psychometer: Dan
Score: Artistic - 32%
ARTISTIC - definition "The display
of qualities required in art, such as sensibility and imagination."
....Collins dictionary
Equally Dan, a hermit's life might
not bother you too much as you aren't dependent on cultural input to
sustain you. Now I don't mean to suggest that you are some kind of cultural
vandal, a sort of artistic Luddite, and I'm sure that there is plenty
going on in your life to more than compensate for a slight lack here
, but I'm pretty sure your time is not spent discussing existentialist
theories to the strains of a Mozart concerto.
Psychometer: Dan
Score: Physical - 22%
PHYSICAL - definition "Relating
to the body, as distinguished from the mind or spirit. Relating to material
things, or nature." ....Collins dictionary
Quite apparently Dan, you don't place
too much emphasis on the physical side of your life, and as your Psychometer
graph shows, this is compensated for in other areas. Perhaps you just
like lying around doing as little as possible, or perhaps your thoughts
are so lofty that you don't have the time to descend to the base life
the rest of us lead. Whatever your particular desires, they are not
essentially physical.
Psychometer: Dan
Score: Sensual - 50%
SENSUAL - definition "Of the
body and senses, rather than the mind or soul; preoccupied with gratification
of the senses; arousing the physical appetites, especially the sexual
appetite." ........Collins dictionary
While you may not be the type of
person to completely indulge your appetites, it has to be said that
neither are you averse to a bit of pampering from time to time. Medieval
banquets where the table groans with the weight of food, and barrels
of wine are emptied down yawning throats is not really your idea of
a good time, but equally, you are no abstemious prude.
Psychometer: Dan
Score: Authoritarian - 6%
AUTHORITARIAN - definition "The
power or right, to control, judge, or prohibit the actions of others."
....Collins dictionary
At this stage, Dan, it would be interesting
to have a look at how you see your role in society.
Whatever anyone might say about you
Dan, it is pretty clear that you are not the bossy type. In fact you
have a distinctly laid back attitude and pay little heed to other people's
bullying manner. You really don't seem to be the kind of person who
always has to be in control and telling everyone what to do all the
time. On the other hand this kind of laissez-faire feel can often cause
problems as the wrong kind of partner might accuse you of being spineless.
Psychometer: Dan
Score: Romantic - 18%
ROMANTIC - definition "Evoking
or given to thoughts and feelings of love, especially idealised or sentimental
love. Idealised for it's purity or beauty." ....Collins dictionary
Finally, as you can see from the
above graph, Dan, quite obviously your life Dan, is not dominated by
the ideal of pure and romantic love. You have a somewhat low-key attitude
to this area of your life. To put it fairly simply, you are not overly
concerned with your partners looks in terms of modern day convention,
or for all the generally accepted notions of romance. You have your
own set of values and will follow them no matter what the contemporary
consensus might be. Vive la difference is all I can say to that!
I N Q U I S I T O R
Dan - What you seek in your partner
POWERS 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100
_________________+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+
Beauty XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Intelligence XXXXXXXXXX
Sexiness XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Humour XXXXXXX
Sensitivity XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Stability XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Practicality XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Creativity XXXXXXXXX
Maternal XXXXXXXX
Vivacity XXXXXXXXXXXXX
Generosity
Independence XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
_________________+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+
Phoebe Elliott - What you seek in
your partner
POWERS 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100
_________________+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+
Attractiveness XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Intelligence XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Sensitivity XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Sexiness XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Humour XXXXXXXXX
Practicality XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Creativity XXXX
Success XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Stability XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Generosity
Paternal XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Vivacity XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
_________________+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+
THE INQUISITOR - FEMALE
In this section, Phoebe, we shall
look in some detail at what you seek in a partner - you know, those
things that really matter to you.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Attractiveness - 30%
ATTRACTIVENESS - description "Handsome,
good looking, appealing, beautiful, gorgeous, lovely, charming, eloquent."
........ Collins Thesaurus
Well Phoebe, you don't place a great
deal of emphasis on your partner's looks, they really don't matter that
much to you. That doesn't mean that you pay no attention whatsoever,
simply that you don't give them a high priority. No doubt there are
qualities that you look for and enjoy in your partner that have considerably
more depth and interest for you.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Intelligence - 86%
INTELLIGENCE - description "Acumen,
alertness, brainy, brightness, cleverness, intellect, perception, quickness,
reason, perspicacity, articulateness." ........Collins Thesaurus
However Phoebe, you definitely give
intelligence a high priority. Obviously, no matter what your own interests
may be, your partner must be the kind of man who is very bright, and
takes a more intellectual angle. It really is of no importance at all,
what IQ either you or your partner may have, the plain fact of the matter
is that you like your partner to show a strong interest in matters outside
of the immediate environs.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Sensitivity - 36%
SENSITIVITY - description "Delicate,
fine, impressionable, responsive, nurturing, sympathetic, feelingfulness,
romanticism." ........Collins Thesaurus
Qualities such as humour and sensitivity
are difficult to put your finger on, and hard to define, but there is
no argument that they are very important considerations in any relationship.
Although you like your man to have
a fairly sympathetic nature, Phoebe, you aren't keen on the overly-delicate
type. Your ideal partner should have a fine balance of delicacy and
machismo, so you can share in the vicissitudes of life without wallowing.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Sexiness - 50%
SEXINESS - description "Erotic,
seductive, sensuous, desirable, virile." ........Collins Thesaurus
In addition to this Phoebe El, your
man must be reasonably erotic, seductive and virile, but not at the
expense of other more subtle qualities. In other words, not a totally
overtly sexy man. You may well like that sort of guy, but what I'm saying
is that his obvious sexuality will not be what really attracts you.
You will need more than blatant libido to move you.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Humour - 18%
HUMOUR - description "Amusement,
funniness, jocularity, wit, jesting." ........Collins Thesaurus
Another point to be taken into consideration
Phoebe, is that you have little need for your perfect man to be constantly
entertaining you. If he lives very much in his own world and doesn't
appear to see the funny side of life too often, you're unlikely to get
too upset about it.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Practicality - 70%
PRACTICALITY - description "Down
to earth, resourceful, capable, realistic, economical, decisiveness."
........Collins Thesaurus
Some of us are reasonably happy to
be self-sufficient in practical matters, but others look for this in
a partner. Sometimes these considerations are of little importance,
and the loved one's artistic and creative abilities are more highly
prized.
It's not the end of the world Phoebe,
if your man doesn't know a gasket from a faucet. No big deal ! On the
other hand, if he can actually occasionally put a spanner to good use,
all well and good. It's nice to know that you can rely on your man to
a certain extent isn't it? Especially if you're not so helpless yourself
as to be completely dependent.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Creativity - 8%
CREATIVITY - description "Talented,
innovative, imaginative, inventive, originality." ........Collins
Thesaurus
It must be said Phoebe, that you
don't require your partner to have his head full of wondrous imaginings.
Someone with a slightly more earthy approach would be better suited
to your needs. You are definitely not impressed by the airy-fairy type.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Success - 34%
SUCCESS - description "Fame,
eminence, powerful, prosperity." ........Collins Thesaurus
A partner's social skills and social
standing will have varying degrees of importance within a relationship,
but are almost always taken into consideration in some way or another.
It is of no importance to you at
all Phoebe, whether your partner is a raging success or a complete failure.
Your feelings of self worth are unaffected by your partner's status.
Perhaps you are quite successful in your right, or perhaps you are just
uninterested. Whatever the case, you can get on with life without pressurising
your man to be head honcho.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Stability - 30%
STABILITY - description "Constancy,
reliability, dependability, responsibility, steadiness, conscientious."
........Collins Thesaurus
On top of this Phoebe, you have little
requirement that he is totally reliable and dependable. If he is the
type who disappears from time to time and returns as if nothing had
happened, you won't have panicked and called the police. You never really
expected anything different, did you ?
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Generosity - 0%
GENEROSITY - description "Kindness,
givingness, open-handedness, big-hearted, magnanimous, unselfish."
........Collins Thesaurus
Turning now to different qualities
altogether, we can take a look at how necessary it is for your partner
to be warmhearted and a man of conviction.
No matter whether your man is a tight-wad
or a spendthrift, you'll love him all the same Phoebe. You're not particularly
worried about displays of generosity. Basically you're a fairly self-contained
kind of woman who doesn't require that your partner be the most open-handed
man in the world.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Paternal - 60%
PATERNAL - description "Supportive,
caring, sympathetic, concerned, authoritative, maturity, protective,
wisdom." ........Collins Thesaurus
Furthermore Phoebe, you are by nature
reasonably independent, but appreciate maturity in your partner. A degree
of sympathetic wisdom will certainly help to make you feel secure. Too
much protectiveness will make you feel somewhat smothered. Put very
simply, you like your man to be well-balanced in this area, neither
one thing nor the other particularly.
Female
Inquisitor: Phoebe Score: Vivacity - 46%
VIVACITY - description "Animated,
ebullience, effervescence, energy, gaiety, high spirits, liveliness,
pep, sparkle, spirit." ..........Collins Thesaurus
However Phoebe, a little bit of fun
and enthusiasm is nice some of the time, but being on the go with an
inexhaustible party animal partner 24 hours a day is simply exhausting,
and sometimes a more peaceful life certainly has its attractions for
you.
THE
INQUISITOR - MALE
Whether you aware of it or not, Dan,
there will be certain traits and characteristics that you will look
for in your partner. We are now going to attempt to identify these fairly
comprehensively. It may never have occurred to you that some of the
areas we shall be looking at might be of any importance. However, in
our experience, even if they may be largely subconscious, they are nonetheless
vital, and well worth examining.
Even if you feel the thread is getting
a little lost, hang on in there - this is important !
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Beauty - 84%
BEAUTY - description "Allure,
charm, elegance, glamour, grace, loveliness, eloquence." ...........Collins
Thesaurus
Obviously, Dan, with a rating like
this, you are not going to be satisfied with anyone less than a Brigitte
Bardot or a Michelle Pfeiffer lookalike ! Your partner must be extremely
beautiful. Her looks will be of great importance to you, and no matter
what other good characteristics she may have, you will always find it
hard to be happy in the company of someone who isn't 'right tasty' !
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Intelligence - 20%
INTELLIGENCE - description "Acumen,
alertness, brainy, brightness, cleverness, intellect, perception, quickness,
reason, perspicacity, articulateness." ...........Collins Thesaurus
However Dan, you certainly don't
demand that your partner is some kind of brain box. Enormously lengthy
philosophical discussions don't hold a great deal of interest for you.
Sitting around discussing the merits of Schopenhausen versus Shostakovitch
probably wouldn't do a whole lot for you. A slightly more earthy temperament
would suit you better.
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Sexiness - 60%
SEXINESS - description "Erotic,
seductive, sensuous, slinky, desirability, hot." ...........Collins
Thesaurus
The qualities that one man might
find sexy or funny, may not be shared by the next man. In other words,
one man's meat is another man's poison ! Nonetheless, we shall attempt
to define what it is, Dan, that you require from your partner in these
areas. Another subtle - but essential - area to consider is that of
sympathetic understanding.
You take the middle line Dan, when
it comes to your lady's sexuality. You don't require a raging nymphomaniac,
but neither would you be happy with 'Little Miss Frigid' ! In other
words, your needs are about average. Now I know that the word 'average'
is bound to make your blood boil, but I'm sure that you would not like
to be thought as some kind of sexual freak, now would you?
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Humour - 14%
HUMOUR - description "Amusement,
funniness, jocularity, wit, jesting." ...........Collins Thesaurus
As well as this Dan, you have to
understand that it is not fundamental for you that your perfect partner
be always entertaining you. You are a fairly well self-contained sort
of person, so you can get on with life without feeling the need for
your partner to make you laugh all the time. Perhaps you just don't
find that many things too funny?
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Sensitivity - 60%
SENSITIVITY - description "Delicate,
fine, impressionable, responsive, feelingfulness, romanticism."
...........Collins Thesaurus
Equally Dan, although your ideal
partner must be able to exhibit a degree of close understanding when
problems become too much, it is also true to say that you can deal with
these matters largely on your own, and don't depend on your partner's
sympathy to see you through.
Some characteristics would appear,
at first glance, to be contradictory. However, that is not by any means
always the case. They can often, in fact, be complementary and also
- occasionally - even necessary.
There are many women who cope extremely
well with everyday matters, and others who obviously don't. There are
also many women for whom creative expression is of great importance
and, by implication, many for whom it isn't. In turn, you will require
from your partner a particular balance of these qualities and that is
what we shall look at now.
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Stability - 62%
STABILITY - description "Constancy,
reliability, dependability, responsibility, steadiness." ...........Collins
Thesaurus
It might be Dan, that you require
a fair degree of steadiness and responsibility but, should your partner
be occasionally a little 'flighty', you won't lose too much sleep over
this. You have enough level-headedness for the pair of you. Nobody likes
to feel that their partner is off here there and everywhere with various
members of the opposite sex, but you can at least handle the odd misdemeanour
without freaking completely.
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Practicality - 70%
PRACTICALITY - description "Down
to earth, resourceful, capable, realistic, husbandry." ...........Collins
Thesaurus
Furthermore Dan, the world won't
cease turning simply because your lady has no idea what to do when a
water pipe bursts. But, equally, should she get the monkey wrench out
of the toolbox and fix it single-handedly, you would be more than happy
as you don't see this as treading on your territory.
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Creativity - 18%
CREATIVITY - description "Talented,
innovative, imaginative, inventive, originality." ...........Collins
Thesaurus
Still Dan, you respond well to your
partner, no matter whether or not she has the slightest desire to express
any kind of creativity whatsoever. Your feelings for her, and for the
relationship, will be in no way diminished. You're just not the demanding
type as far as this area of your relationship is concerned.
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Maternal - 16%
MATERNAL - description "Nurturing,
supportive, caring, sympathetic, protective." ...........Collins
Thesaurus
Men are not by nature complex creatures.
And no matter how independent you may be, or think you may be, no doubt
there is an essentially indolent part of your nature where you would
like someone to 'look after you'. Despite that, you would not like your
partner to be exclusively like this; it is also extremely pleasant to
be involved with someone who has a powerful love of life.
At first glance Dan, it seems that
you have no desire at all to be spoilt and pampered. You'd probably
find this a little smothering. If your partner is far too busy or too
independent to give you that kind of personal attention often, you won't
be in the least bit bothered.
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Vivacity - 26%
VIVACITY - description "Flirtatious,
bubbly, lively, animated, effervescent, scintillating, sparkly, spirited."
...........Collins Thesaurus
However Dan, if your partner is not
especially sparkling, you won't be any too worried. You don't need a
razzler-dazzler to make you feel good. If she has a slightly 'Nora Batty'
nature, you can handle it. Perhaps your own interests take up so much
of your time that you really don't need to be amused by your partner.
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Generosity - 0%
GENEROSITY - description "Kindness,
givingness, open-handedness, big-hearted, magnanimous, unselfish."
...........Collins Thesaurus
You're probably quite happy Dan,
being the Paymaster-General. If your partner is either not the type,
or unable, to pick up the tab more than once in a blue moon, you won't
worry about the damage to your pocket. This is not a big issue as far
as you are concerned, your pocket is always open to your partners needs.
Male Inquisitor: Dan
Score: Independence - 48%
INDEPENDENCE - description "Freedom,
liberty, self-determination, self-reliance, autonomy." ...........Collins
Thesaurus
You're not the kind of guy Dan, who
wants a little puppy dog always following you around, to coin a phrase.
On the other hand you wouldn't be too happy with a full tilt boogie
feminist either. In fact you're just a regular sort of guy who likes
his gal to have some life of her own, but who also likes to spend plenty
of time with you.
A T T R A C T O M E T E R
Phoebe's and Dan's Attractometer
POWERS 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100
_________________+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+
Love XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Sex
Communication XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Electricity XXXXXXX
Responsibility XXXXXXXXX
Humour XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Inspiration XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Empathy XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Competitiveness XXXXXXXXXX
Angst !
_________________+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+____+
Score: Love - 42%
LOVE - definitions "To have
a great attachment to, and affection for; to have passionate desire;
longing and feelings for." See also affection: "a feeling
of fondness, or tenderness for a person." ........ Collins Concise
English Dictionary (1982).
Affection between you, Phoebe and
Dan is important but not an over-riding concern. No matter how much
you may care for one another, the day to day displays of affection -
you know those little touches ? - do not play a major role.
You enjoy each other without being
too demanding or without high expectation. Although there may not be
complete agreement between you over matters of aesthetic and sensual
tastes, you are reasonably tolerant of each other in these areas.
Score:
Sex - 0%
SEX - definitions
"Feelings or behaviour, resulting
from the urge to gratify the sexual instinct." See also Passion:
"A feeling of fondness, or tenderness for a person. ardent love
or affection; intense sexual love." ........ Collins Concise English
Dictionary (1982).
Obviously, Phoebe and Dan your attention
turns to other matters, for satisfaction of your sexual appetites does
not take a high priority in your relationship. This is no way means
that you don't have a high sexual drive; simply that you find other
needs must be satisfied first. Of course there is always the chance
that if there is an imbalance; in other words, if one of you has a much
higher sexual drive than the other, this could give rise to vary destructive
arguments that have almost no way of being resolved.
Score:
Communication - 48%
COMMUNICATION - definitions "The
imparting or exchange of information, ideas or feelings." ........
Collins Concise English Dictionary (1982).
It is a common complaint within relationships
that people don't talk to one another. You don't really suffer from
this problem Phoebe and Dan. However, there are areas which you find
difficult to share or talk about. Ideas and feelings are not always
as openly expressed as perhaps they might be. At least you have a good
appreciation of when to speak out and when to keep quiet. Both of you
understand that - sometimes - silence can be golden !
Score:
Electricity - 14%
ELECTRICITY - definitions "Emotional
tension or excitement." See also intelligence: "capacity for
understanding; ability to perceive and comprehend meaning." ........
Collins Concise English Dictionary (1982).
Well Phoebe and Dan, I have to that
your relationship is not the type where sparks fly all the time. Even
if there is not a high level of excitement and emotional tension, at
least you can rest assured that unpredictability will not be a problem.
In my experience, this means that the normal 'pressure points' that
you might expect from a relationship are unlikely to develop volcanic
proportions. At least you're safe from flying saucepans !
Score:
Responsibility - 18%
RESPONSIBILITY - definitions "Accountable
for one's actions and decisions." See also Duty: "the force
that binds one morally or legally to one's obligations." ........
Collins Concise English Dictionary (1982).
It may well be in your relationship,
Phoebe and Dan, that pleasure comes before duty and that you do not
pay enough attention to all of those moral and legal obligations which
are, unfortunately, a part of any relationship.
Responsibility doesn't seem to be
a big thing in your relationship, but even if it's true that ' all work
and no play makes Jack a dull boy ', it's also true to say that all
play and no work can get Jack into a bucket-load of trouble.
One thing is for sure: you are certainly
not going to be bogged down dealing with those mundane affairs of life.
However, beware the bailiffs !
Score:
Humour - 34%
HUMOUR - definitions "The ability
to appreciate or express that which is humorous." See also to Amuse:
"to entertain, divert, to cause to laugh or smile." ........
Collins Concise English Dictionary (1982).
Falling about in hysterics, Phoebe
and Dan, and weeping with laughter; in other words having a highly developed
sense of the absurd, does not come easily to either of you within this
relationship. This doesn't mean that you're both really dour, boring
people, it's simply that whatever sense of humour you might have individually,
when put together they some how don't quite click. The troubles of the
world tend to sit rather heavily on your shoulders and cannot be easily
brushed off with a smile and a shrug.
Score:
Inspiration - 48%
INSPIRATION - definitions "Stimulation
of the mind, feelings, etc, to special activity or creativity."
........ Collins Concise English Dictionary (1982).
Your ability, Phoebei and Dan, to
stimulate each other's creative activities is not particularly strong.
Perhaps you have no great creative juices, in which case it won't be
a huge problem. At least you don't suffer from an over-idealisation
of each other but, instead, have a realistic appreciation of each other's
qualities. There is certainly a degree of mutual sympathy that allows
for understanding without making you blind to each other's faults.
Score:
Empathy - 46%
EMPATHY - definitions "The power
of understanding and imaginatively entering into another person's feelings."
........ Collins Concise English Dictionary (1982).
In your relationship, Phoebe and
Dan, the power of understanding and imaginatively entering into each
other's feelings does not come particularly naturally to either of you.
The desire to respond and work with each other's inner rhythms is not
a matter of huge importance to you. You may not be entirely on the same
spiritual wavelength, but you certainly have an ability to make allowances
for each other's needs in this area.
Score:
Competitiveness - 20%
COMPETITIVENESS - definitions "Involving
rivalry. A contest in which a winner is selected from among two contestants."
........ Collins Concise English Dictionary (1982).
The desire to be the centre of attention,
Phoebe and Dan, to be No.1 in the relationship, is not something that
concerns either of you. You know full well that power struggles are
simply destructive, and you are more than happy to allow each other
the freedom and space to develop as individuals, as well as a couple.
This obviously bodes well for your partnership, as there is nothing
quite so damaging and destructive as power struggles and endless fighting
to be 'top dog'.
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